tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-368938202024-02-07T12:04:25.381+07:00wichiworld..is of a girl, mother, wife, daughter, student, teacher, friend and humble servant of Allah SWT :)Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.comBlogger214125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-81286740396407145162020-07-11T11:35:00.001+07:002020-07-11T11:35:59.318+07:00Wow 2020...In the last post, I mentioned how 2020 is gonna be waay different than previous years. That big changes are gonna happen. Well here we are halfway through 2020 aaanndd whoopdeedoooo... HELLO CORONAVIRUS!!!!The thought of always be indoors excited the introvert in me at first. But I forgot that I am also prone to anxiety. And so that anxiety kicked in... and it got me bad. Being cooped up indoors,Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-48505909470891845582020-03-04T18:25:00.000+07:002020-03-04T18:25:18.607+07:0020/20I can feel it already. 2020 is a year of changes. Like, big totally life-changing events are/will be going on.
Changes in career. In relationships. I. Mind and body. (Tapi jumlah anak kykny tetep sih #kutetepusahadanakangteteppuasberanakdua 😅)
Tapi awal tahun aku selalu optimis. Berhasil mengubah arah, bikin kebiasaan baru dll dsb... Lalu masuk tengah sampe akhir tahun it all comes spiralling Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-36853657847614900352019-11-24T22:29:00.001+07:002019-11-24T22:29:24.480+07:00The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up - Marie Kondo (Pre Challenge 3 KIMI 2020)
Pre Challenge KIMI berikutnya adalah me-review buku, ada 3 judul yang jadi pilihan. Pilihanku jatuh pada buku The Life-changing Magic of Tidying Up oleh Marie Kondo. Sebenarnya sebelumnya sedang membaca buku ini, sudah sekitar 1/5nya, tapi terus gak diselesaikan. Begitu dikasih challenge, mau coba baca buku Emotional Healing Therapy-nya Irma Rahayu, dengan download e-booknya di app iPusnas Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-36681980915839651232019-10-30T23:58:00.002+07:002019-10-31T10:31:09.486+07:00RE-HEART
Pre-challenge KIMI
2020 yaitu nyeritain pengalaman ngulik album Mantra2 by Kunto Aji.
Sebagai orang yg gampang baper denger lagu liriknya dimasukin hati,
emosi juga diaduk2 dengerin album ini. Berasa ditampar, dipukpuk trus
dipeluk kenceng2....
Semua lagunya sih relate bgt sama aku, ya
SULUNG, ya REHAT, apalagi SAUDADE bikin brebes mili sesenggukan pas lagi nyetir keinget orangtua dan Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-90360191019981304422019-01-14T17:34:00.000+07:002019-01-14T17:34:25.380+07:00Bye bye hypothetical babyMaybe it's the fact that I am doing a netnographic research of Facebook groups on breastfeeding/child-rearing which discusses about breastfeeding and babies/young children in general, seeing my own kids grow up and be school-age children kinda made me miss the good ol' baby days. Then looking at feeds of people having babies gave me "baby fever", making me want to have (another) one of my own. Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-62944139906979721372018-12-30T01:39:00.001+07:002018-12-30T01:39:47.175+07:00Cacar/chickenpox/varicellaDecember is always physically and mentally challenging for me. The end of semester means I'm busy with work (if you don't know already I'm a univeristy lecturer) and deadlines with my study as a PhD student, and this year I had to also deal with my first grader son having his first formal school exams. To top that December weather is not good for the health. Hence I always get sick in December. Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-50191226943933311292018-12-23T15:56:00.002+07:002018-12-23T15:56:33.770+07:00Still offline :)Wow.... turns out I have been off Instagram for 3 months already. Although not 100% off, I didn't delete my account, just uninstalled the app on my phones. I gotta say it was a good decision. I think I was spot on in suspecting Instagram was the source of my deteriorating mental health.
Ironic, isn't it. Since I am a social media researcher who reports that social media is beneficial for mothersWichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-13721832892094559632018-10-08T15:29:00.000+07:002018-10-08T15:34:44.534+07:00When I finally realise it's October alreadykerja di meja bawah, karena meja kerja di atas panas banget dan susah fokus ada anak2Dari hari Ahad kemarin seharian ngoprek excel dan SPSS. Mabok makk.. Ternyata data yg masuk dari survei ulang gak secemerlang dulu.. dari 2 hari yg lalu stagnan di 80an (minimal 200 dari 400an yg dikirim). So I decided to work on the available data to do another validity and reliability analyses.. which as Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-14625018886856917782018-10-04T12:32:00.000+07:002018-10-04T12:32:39.917+07:00AlhamdulillahHellooooo!!
I am currently in the IPB Library. I had to attend other students' results seminar as requirement to conduct my own results seminar. I've still got a few more seminars to attend before the quota is filled. Anyway, it's also time to do my dissertation. Which took quite a turn.
Maksudnya gini, jadi karena kesalahan teknis (baca: kedodolan diriku) ada beberapa pertanyaan yang harus Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-56928548830196694282018-10-01T08:04:00.000+07:002018-10-01T08:04:45.477+07:001 week so-called social media detoxSo as I said in the previous post, I uninstalled Instagram. IG is the only social media I was active at. I have Facebook and Twitter accounts, Path as well. But I don't have apps for them in my phones so I only access them in my browser if I just need some information. Like Twitter I use to see bout traffic jams or rail (KRL) info when there's delays. Facebook I need for my dissertation research.Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-18708559736681558292018-09-25T08:57:00.000+07:002018-09-25T08:57:59.548+07:00Gone there, back hereSejak Path resmi mengumumkan tutup, baru kerasa ya sedihnya. Kenapa ninggalin Path ikut2an main IG. Padahal I got real connections and better experience in Path. Instagram felt too superficial and in the end became toxic for me. Too toxic that I decided to uninstall it for the time being last night.Awalnya berani unfollow atau hide story. Lama2 muak ya uninstall sekalian. Belum berani tutup akun Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-17368317639534979662015-10-29T20:39:00.001+07:002015-10-29T20:39:30.529+07:00Kemana aja??Halooo... blog ini dah lama banget yah gak diupdate. Yah gitu deh, sibuk kuliah, ngajar (akhirnya jadi dosen jugak hehe) sambil ngurus 2 anak lanang aktif nan cerdas...Jadinya curhatnya pindah ke Path seringnya, dan pindah ke sini. Soalnya di Wordpress bisa nyambung sama Path hehe.Belum memutuskan mau terus update disini apa pindah ke lapak sebelah sih.. Udah 10 tahunan di Blogger soalnya. Lebih Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-82928541510126867322015-03-13T13:54:00.001+07:002015-03-13T13:54:31.206+07:00First post in 2015Hellooo... First post in 2015. Kemana ajaa??? Haha. Sejak pindah Bogor emang hidup jd sulit. Hehe. Namapun merantau ya. Plus anak2 lg fase lumayan bikin repot, which is normal for them jadi ya dijalani saja lah. Saking susahnya, ini gw n si mbak langsung drastis jd tambah langsing ngurus rumah dan dua anak energik ini. Tp Alhamdulillah sih anak2 malah sehat dan montok :* Um.. What's new? Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-27842842033032557072014-10-03T11:06:00.002+07:002014-10-03T11:10:50.266+07:00Refleksi 1 bulan kuliah DoktorAlhamdulillah kuliah sudah berjalan sebulan.. ihh ga kerasa deh. Yaiyalah orang sibuknya kayak dikejar2 apaan. Awalnya culture shock. Waktu S2 kebetulan di Aussie, disana semua serba teratur, tugas dan buku udah jelas ditulis di silabus yang bisa didonlot dari web. Jadi udah fix itu tugas dan ujian apa aja dan kapan dikumpul. Nah disini semua serba mendadak dan express. Masuk kuliah blank karena Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-35256717866966173302014-09-12T08:29:00.002+07:002018-10-04T12:32:55.118+07:00In memoriam Mamam LabibKemarin dapat berita mengejutkan, teman saya meninggal setelah melahirkan anak keduanya. Anak pertamanya seumuran Raka, lebih muda 3 minggu saja. Almarhumah mengalami robek rahim setelah melahirkan dan pendarahan, kemudian rahimnya diangkat dan meninggal seusai operasi pengangkatan rahim. Almarhumah meninggal 2 orang putra, yang satu baru berusia 1 hari.
Kaget, syok ga percaya kalo Mamam Labib Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-29109988692550260812014-09-12T08:15:00.001+07:002014-09-12T08:16:32.911+07:00Why I do my PhDWhenever I have second thoughts and face obstacles in doing my oh-so-challenging doctoral study, I will always come to these 2 essays. They were written as a requirement for applying the scholarship I've been awarded (Beasiswa Pendidikan Indonesia LPDP).
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Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-56186895725540905942014-09-04T16:52:00.002+07:002014-09-04T16:52:59.204+07:00Jadi Mahasiswi LagiAlhamdulillah, setelah perjalanan panjang yang dimulai pada Januari 2013 (huwoww.. ampir 2 tahun yaa) akhirnya ditakdirkan untuk jadi mahasiswa doktoral di IPB.
Kemaren kuliah perdana, err, lebih tepatnya kayak perwalian sih. Berjibaku dari Jakarta ke kampus Darmaga, muter2 nyari gedungnya dan nyari parkir, trus muter2 nyari ruangan sampe nyasar dan beneran muter 360 derajat alias balik lagi ke Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-44308885762190819742014-07-04T15:32:00.001+07:002014-07-04T15:32:15.282+07:00Mudik asik ke Tasik part 2: day 3&4Lanjuutt.. Abis makan bakso, hamdalah malemnya anak2 agak anteng bobonya. Gw bs bernapas malem itu. Besok paginya rencananya mau berenang di Tee Jay Waterpark, which is waterboom di tengah2 kota Tasik, tepatnya di Asia Plaza. Ribet2an dulu nyuapin, mandiin endebre2.. Kali ini pergi berempat aja, mertua dan ponakan ga diajak. Bukan apa2, takut riweuh nanti.. Huhu. Sebelumnya gw ngotot Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-57110912523778758572014-07-04T15:31:00.001+07:002014-07-04T15:31:57.142+07:00Mudik asik ke Tasik part 2: day 3&4Lanjuutt.. Abis makan bakso, hamdalah malemnya anak2 agak anteng bobonya. Gw bs bernapas malem itu. Besok paginya rencananya mau berenang di Tee Jay Waterpark, which is waterboom di tengah2 kota Tasik, tepatnya di Asia Plaza. Ribet2an dulu nyuapin, mandiin endebre2.. Kali ini pergi berempat aja, mertua dan ponakan ga diajak. Bukan apa2, takut riweuh nanti.. Huhu. Sebelumnya gw ngotot Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-66091613010451770972014-06-27T10:54:00.001+07:002014-06-27T12:21:20.706+07:00Mudik Asik ke Tasik part 1: day 1&2Mumpung msh fresh, mau cerita kemarin mudik asik ke Tasik ahh.. Hehe. Sengaja mudik sebelum Ramadhan, karena pas Lebaran ga bisa ke Tasik soalnya Akang training di Singapore (hiks). Klo mudiknya pas puasa lbh rempong ntar kitanya jd ga puasa (walopun dibolehkan krn safar) kan sayang..
Seruu bgt perjalanannya. Dimulai dgn nervous parah ngebayangin ngangon 2 bocah lasak di mobil sendirian.. Jd Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-33229865329508373142014-05-24T20:57:00.001+07:002014-05-24T20:57:44.405+07:00Leap of faith with ODOJJadi gini, salah satu resolusi 2014 adalah meningkatkan ibadah kepada Alloh. Sejak punya anak perasaan susah banget mau ibadah, yg wajib spt sholat selalu keburu2 karena ditungguin anak, puasa Ramadhan bolong2 krn marathon hamil-nyusuin-hamil, boro2 mau ibadah sunnah seperti sholat dhuha atau qiyamullail dan juga tilawah *facepalm* Maluuu... >_< Padahal justru sekarang kudu banyak Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-42230069890709478342014-05-21T15:56:00.001+07:002014-05-21T15:56:19.956+07:00The boys' first trial class: Rumah Main CikalKemarin Raka dan Rayi trial kelas di Rumah Main Cikal fX. Iseng sih, mumpung lagi ada free trial, trus anaknya Mba libur jd Mba bisa gw pinjem (klo jalan hrs sepaket) dan emang boseen di rumah. Well sbenernya penasaran sih sekolah tuh kaya apa. Pas banget ada jadwal kelas Kakak2 dan Bayi2 di hari yg sama.. Yaudah cabut deh rombongan sirkus: Raka, Rayi, gw, Mba dan anaknya.. Ke fX kitaa.. Jam Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-52281549071022127112014-05-10T07:35:00.001+07:002014-05-10T07:35:38.672+07:00Be a professional working motherWanna vent a little here.. Jadi kemarin blogwalking ke blog2 emak2 dan ada post di suatu blog tentang si empunya yg adalah working mother. Doi curhat klo sering dateng telat, pulang cepet, ngilang di kantor karena ngurus anak. Kurleb dia bilang nggak peduli deh diapa2in d kantor, keluarga nomor 1. Komen2 di blogny jg mendukung si ibu, lah gaji gaji gw ini,terserah gw mw kerja kyk apa. Lohh??Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-57028716608192039272014-05-07T22:03:00.001+07:002014-05-07T22:03:02.189+07:00Sekilas updateHallooo... Jadi kemaren ngilang karena lagi digugurkan dosanya sama Allah (amiin) melalui sakit. Sekarang masih sih. Dari batpil, campak, batpil lagi 2x. Soalny virusny pingpong dirumah. Nemplok sana sini rauwisuwis. Untuung pas campak anak2 gak kena. Entah campak atau chikunguya sih. Abis demam tinggi dan 2 hari pertama harus jalan pake tongkat karena sakit bgt kakinya. Bolakbalik RS tiap hari Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36893820.post-52833098839565842982014-03-04T17:30:00.001+07:002014-03-04T17:30:23.260+07:00SecondbornGw anak sulung. Adik cuma semata wayang. Kadang ngerasa nyokap lebih punya soft spot ke ade gw. Emang sih pada jamannya gw daddy's girl. Sampe sekarang jg ade gw lbh deket ke nyokap daripada gw, padahal doi cowok. Setelah punya anak 2, gw bisa ngerti knapa ade gw diistimewakan nyokap. Gw dulu sebagai anak pertama dimanja sekali sebelum ade lahir. Mainan banyak berlimpah, apa aja dikasih. Wichihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07237521698788757335noreply@blogger.com3